Nothing is ever easy...
The setup is as follows.
- I want to have a default website for connection to the raw ip-number of my server,
- i also want multiple virtual hosts
- i want to use php5-fpm
- i want to have each site having its own user and not the default www-data (apache)
- And i want it to be fast, nice and easy to administer.
So to start, install apache, php5 and php5-fpm, set it up using sockets to same server.